1. A friend happily says “yes, sure!” when you ask to borrow their charger.
Consent Not consent
Reason:
Part 1 of 2 · Sex Education S2 E3
Freely givenInformedEnthusiasticSpecificReversible
| Word | What it means |
|---|---|
| Consent | Freely agreeing to something, and meaning it. |
| Freely given | A real choice — no pressure, fear or tricks. |
| Informed | You know what you're actually agreeing to. |
| Enthusiastic | A clear, willing yes — not just going along with it. |
| Specific | Agreeing to one thing isn't agreeing to everything. |
| Reversible | You can change your mind at any time. |
| Bodily autonomy | Your right to decide what happens to your own body. |
| Minimising | Playing something down — e.g. joking it 'wasn't a big deal'. |
| Trauma response | How the body/mind reacts to shock — e.g. freezing, or feelings coming later. |
| Bystander | Someone who is present and sees what happens. |
Key distinction: a clear, willing "yes" is consent. Silence, freezing or going along out of fear is NOT consent. No words spoken does not mean agreement.
Memory hook: "No clear yes = no consent."
Common mark-losers: writing only "she didn't say yes" without explaining why that matters; assuming a calm or joking reaction means no harm was done.
Self-quiz: cover this and say aloud — (1) three key words for consent, (2) one reason Aimee minimised it, (3) what "bodily autonomy" means.
1. A friend happily says “yes, sure!” when you ask to borrow their charger.
Consent Not consent
Reason:
2. Someone keeps on at you until you give in, just to make them stop.
Consent Not consent
Reason:
3. A person says nothing, looks away and freezes.
Consent Not consent
Reason:
4. Two people both clearly and willingly agree to something.
Consent Not consent
Reason:
Write what each feature means in your own words.
| Feature | What it means |
|---|---|
| Freely given | |
| Informed | |
| Enthusiastic | |
| Specific | |
| Reversible |
Write a paragraph that covers all four points:
Start: "On the bus, a man behaved towards Aimee without her consent…"
One thing I learned today…
One question I still have…