PSHE · RSE · Part 2 of 2

Bystanders & Why This Story Was Told

Part 2 — looking at the people around Aimee, why writers tell stories like this, and pulling it all together in a full summary. (Sex Education S2 E3.)

Today we are learning to…

  • Explain why bystanders sometimes do nothing — and what an active bystander could do.
  • Explain why the writer included Aimee's storyline.
  • Write a clear, structured summary of the storyline and its message.

Success criteria — tick when you've got it

Before we start

Same room, same rules

Our ground rules

  • We talk about Aimee, the character — not about ourselves.
  • You never have to share anything personal.
  • You can step out for a moment, no questions asked.
  • We listen and we keep it kind.

Quick recap of Part 1

  • Consent must be freely given, informed and enthusiastic.
  • No clear "yes" means no consent — words or no words.
  • People react to a shock in different ways (joking, freezing, fear later) — never their fault.

If anything today brings something up for you, that's OK. Talk to a trusted adult, our safeguarding lead, or Childline 0800 1111.

Arrival · do-now · ~4 min

Active or passive bystander?

A bystander is someone who is there and sees what's happening. For each one, tap 🙋 Active or 🙈 Passive.

✓ All four done. An active bystander does something safe; a passive one stays out of it.
Starter · ~4 min

The 5 D's of being an active bystander

Safe ways to help. Tap a word on the left, then tap what it means.

The "D"

What it means

They all start with D: Direct, Distract, Delegate, Document, Delay. You never have to put yourself in danger.
✓ All matched! Even small, safe actions can make a real difference.
I Do · the bystander effect

Why did no one step in?

needs help "Someone else will." "Not sure what I saw." "I'm scared."

On the bus, other people were nearby — but no one stepped in or checked on Aimee.

This is the bystander effect: the more people who are present, the less likely any one person acts — everyone assumes someone else will.

People also freeze: unsure what they saw, scared, or worried about getting it wrong.

Doing nothing isn't really neutral — it can leave a person feeling alone. But you never have to confront anyone: the 5 D's are safe ways to help.

🧠 Key word: bystander effect — diffusion of responsibility across a crowd.
We Do · let's talk it through

The people around Aimee

1

What did the other passengers do? Why might they have done nothing?

2

Is "doing nothing" really a neutral choice? Why / why not?

3

Using the 5 D's, what's one safe thing a bystander could have done?

4

How might it feel to be surrounded by people who say nothing?

Stems: "People might do nothing because…" · "A safe action would be to ___ because…"
Bridge · the makers explain

"One Story Away"

In this short feature the show's writer and actor talk about why they told this story. It may also show brief moments from the bus scene. Your teacher will have checked it first — and you can step out any time.

Watch for: What do the makers say they wanted people to understand by telling Aimee's story?
Tap to play"The Bus | One Story Away" — creators & cast on the storyline (Netflix's Sex Education)
▶ Open on YouTube (fallback) Teacher: preview first. If the scene moments aren't right for the group, use the points below instead.
I Do + We Do · writer's purpose

Why did the writer tell this story?

To show that this can happen anywhere — even somewhere ordinary, like a daytime bus.

To show there's no single "right" way to react — minimising, freezing and fear-later are all real.

To challenge assumptions about who this happens to and what it "looks like".

To encourage people to take it seriously, report it, and support each other — the way Maeve and the girls support Aimee.

Now discuss

5

Why do you think the writer included this storyline?

6

Why set it on an ordinary bus, in daytime?

7

What does the writer want the audience to understand, feel or do?

8

Why show Aimee's friends supporting her, not just the assault itself?

Stem: "I think the writer included this because they wanted the audience to…"
Independent · ~10 min

Pull it all together: write the summary 🦉

Choose your level. Use the structure to help you.

Foundation

Finish each sentence:

"On the bus, a man behaved towards Aimee without her ____."
"Afterwards she ____ it, but later she felt ____."
"The other people did ____."
"The writer wanted us to ____."
Middle

Write a paragraph covering all four:

  • what happens & why it breaks consent
  • how Aimee responds (then & later)
  • what the bystanders did
  • why the writer told the story
Start: "In this storyline, a man behaves towards Aimee without her consent on the bus…"
Higher

Write a structured summary in three short paragraphs: (1) the event & consent, (2) the responses & bystanders, (3) the writer's purpose. Use the words consent, bystander effect and bodily autonomy.

✍️ Top tip: a strong summary explains why things matter, not just what happens.
🌟 Finished? End with one sentence: if you saw a friend frozen like Aimee, which of the 5 D's would you use, and why?
Exit ticket

Before you go

One action

Name one safe thing a bystander could do to help someone.

One word

Choose one word for the most important message of these two lessons.

Key messages

  • Consent must be freely given, informed and enthusiastic.
  • Bystanders can help safely — doing something small beats doing nothing.
  • However someone reacts, it's never their fault, and support — Childline 0800 1111 — is always there.
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That completes the unit.

You thought carefully about a serious topic across two lessons. That's real maturity.

Support is always there — Childline 0800 1111.